Singleness often uncovers the things we once tried to hide. In the stillness, the wounds rise.
The fears speak. The disappointments echo. But this is not punishment, it’s preparation.
God does not waste pain. He uses it to prune, to purify, and to position. And in my own journey, I
have seen how healing isn’t always about forgetting the past; it’s about inviting God into it.
There were memories I buried, lies I believed, and longings I silenced. But as I brought them
before the Lord, He met me not with shame, but with compassion.
I’ve had to grieve dreams that didn’t happen on my timeline. I’ve had to forgive people who
weren’t sorry. I’ve had to ask the Lord to teach me joy, not when life changes, but right now.
And through it all, He has proven faithful.
Healing takes time. Growth requires surrender. And wholeness is not the absence of longing; it
is the presence of Jesus in the middle of it.
I am learning daily to abide. To remain in Him. To live rooted even when the fruit isn’t visible yet.
There are days when I cry, when I question, when I long. But even in those moments, I am safe
in the hands of my Healer. He is shaping me. Not for someone else. Not for a platform. But for
His glory.
“He restores my soul.” Psalm 23:3
“Being confident of this very thing, that He who has begun a good work in you will
complete it.” Philippians 1:6
Wonsehlea Teah
